What is the biblical basis for all Christians being able to counsel?
NT terms for counseling are addressed to all Christians
What are the NT terms for counseling?
What does parakaleo mean?
"to come alongside
Name a verse that uses parakaleo?
1 Thes. 5:11
What does didasko mean?
What does noutheteo?
"to stick in someone's mind/spear; admonish
Name a verse that uses noutheteo
What does elencho mean?
What does epitimao mean?
What is the main goal of NT counseling?
Couselin g is an essential part _______________.
Name two verses stating the main goal of counseling.
What is the context for NT counseling?
Name 4 counseling models.
What is the background of the Dynamic model?
What are the presuppositions of the Dynamic model?
"humans are organisms
What does healing look like in the Dynamic model?
need to heal of past trauma by drawing out subconscious sources
what are the Scriptural compatibilities of the dynamic model?
depravity--can't understand why I'm doing what I do (Rom. 7); category for mental illness; sometimes not at fault for damage; past effects present; ppl capable of evaluative thinking
what are the scriptural imcompatibilities of the dynamic model?
we are moral agents (Rom. 3:23); we are not essentially one way that can't be changed--not fated
What is the background of the Moral model?
What are the presuppositions of the Moral model?
wrong actions lead to wrong feelings and attitudes
Evaluate the presuppositions of the moral model.
true but don't know why you do what you do; legalistic: what about internal sins that aren't an action?
What does healing look like according to the Moral model?
do the right thing
What are the scriptural compatabilities of the moral model?
self-control is fruit of the spirit; admonishing is loving (but that's all they do); blessed (happy) if you do these things
what are the scriptural incompatabilities of the moral model?
discounts deeper causes (Jer. 17:9); deals w/external bh only
what is the background of the relational model?
what are the presuppositions of the relational model?
designed to love & be loved; human problems are defensive attempts to handle fear; our reactions damage relationships more
what does healing look like in the relationsal model?
"identify false beliefs
what are the scriptural compatabilities of the relational model?
what are the scriptural incompatabilities of the relational model?
"over-reliance on ""feel the pain""; don't need to dwell on past in order to experience healing (but past is significant); Crabb has silly exegesis at times; unaquainted w/healthy Body Life"
What are the main points in teaching the relationships chart?
1. understand the primacy of love; 2. God's part vs. our part in learning & practicing it; 3. where love requires deliberate action; 4. Love is rooted in God & his Word; 5. love defines Christian ethics & spiritual life
what are the basic qualities of love?
What distinction does 1 Pet. 1:22 make?
phileo vs. agape: God gives us affection for others (indicative) & we need to sacrifice for others (imperative)
What is 1 Cor. 16:14 about?
love requires deliberate action
name a verse about the primacy of love
1 Tim. 1:5
what is 1 John 4:16 about?
"love is rooted in God & His Word
name a verse that says love defines Christian ethics
name 2 verses that say love defintes spiritual life
"1 Jn. 4:12
Describe the common experience of a casual relationship
describe the common experience of a close relationship
describe the common experience of an intimate relationship
"extensive time commitment
describe the personal inner workings of a casual relationship
"a general knowledge
describe the personal inner workings of a close relationship
describe the personal inner workings of an intimate relationship
describe the emotions of a casual relationship
describe the emotions of a close relationship
describe the emotions of an intimate relationship
how can the relationships chart be applied?
1. identify problem area; 2. appropriate God's power in these areas; 3. deepend a relationship by bringing it to the next level